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“Nigerian men are better than South African men”

A South African lady simply identified as @keyishoAmi has taken to her social media page to praise Nigerian men for being the best in taking care of women.
she wrote this that
When It Comes To Women, Nigerian Men Are The Kings Of taking care of Women in Africa” Nigerian men are greatest men I’ve ever had a relationship with. would love to get married to one if she can find one.

My Nigerian husband just bought me a Nice 2018 Volkswagens I love it.Despite the hatred and distrust by many South Africans on Nigerians living in South Africa.


I’ve been scared of what people will say. But funny enough, I love them and I am to married to one”. Nigerians men are better than South African men. Get Yourself a Nigerian Man and enjoy life #upnaijamen cool

“Nigerian men are better than South African men”

A South African lady simply identified as @keyishoAmi has taken to her social media page to praise Nigerian men for being the best in taking care of women.
she wrote this that
When It Comes To Women, Nigerian Men Are The Kings Of taking care of Women in Africa” Nigerian men are greatest men I’ve ever had a relationship with. would love to get married to one if she can find one.

My Nigerian husband just bought me a Nice 2018 Volkswagens I love it.Despite the hatred and distrust by many South Africans on Nigerians living in South Africa.


I’ve been scared of what people will say. But funny enough, I love them and I am to married to one”. Nigerians men are better than South African men. Get Yourself a Nigerian Man and enjoy life #upnaijamen cool

Struggling professional “Call of Duty player” Douglas “FaZe Censor” Martin dumped his weathergirl girlfriend Yanet Garcia to spend more time with video games. Announcing the decision on YouTube, the 23-year-old revealed that he and Garcia, 26, had split up, saying “I don’t have time for a girlfriend.” He went on to say that he needed to focus on playing “Call of Duty,” and would be playing the next iteration in the franchise, “Black Ops IV,” full-time while she was “doing that job over there.” Garcia — known as “the world’s sexiest weathergirl” — grew her global legion of fans during the World Cup as she supported her native Mexico. This included allowing two commentators to kick her famous butt.

Struggling professional “Call of Duty player” Douglas “FaZe Censor” Martin dumped his weathergirl girlfriend Yanet Garcia to spend more time with video games. Announcing the decision on YouTube, the 23-year-old revealed that he and Garcia, 26, had split up, saying “I don’t have time for a girlfriend.” He went on to say that he needed to focus on playing “Call of Duty,” and would be playing the next iteration in the franchise, “Black Ops IV,” full-time while she was “doing that job over there.” Garcia — known as “the world’s sexiest weathergirl” — grew her global legion of fans during the World Cup as she supported her native Mexico. This included allowing two commentators to kick her famous butt.

Sumbo Adeoye and her husband, Pastor David Adeoye had the naming ceremony of their son in the US last night.

The couple waited for five years to welcome their son. At the ceremony, Sumbo revealed she had been pregnant every year since they got married.

she said that ”What I carry in my hand is a miracle from God. We went through so much but to God be the glory, David is here. I can’t count the number of losses. I have been pregnant every year since I got married. Finally David is here. He came when I was like I don’t want to keep taking babies from my womb. I am tired. That was when God decided to say Okay, I am taking over the wheel and God just gave me this one”
The couple who are celebrating their 5th wedding anniversary today July 22nd, named their son: PRINCE DAVID ADEOYE Sithembiso (Zulu name for Promise) Oluwaseyemilopo, Oluwatoromo, Oluwajomiloju, Oluwalonimi, Akorede, Oluwashina, Ayomide.

Sumbo also wished her husband a happy anniversary on her page. She wrote:

“Happy anniversary my dearest husband, father, best friend, brother, life coach and Biggest blessing. Our coming together, joining forces and embracing the will of God, was the best decision we took 5years ago.
“I Love you then,
I Love you Now,
And I promise to always Do.
I will dance for you without a beat,
Make you smile till you Shake your head,
and I will do shakara on top, so you can chase me around the house.
You are the Divine compensation I will forever be grateful for ❤”.

Sumbo Adeoye and her husband, Pastor David Adeoye had the naming ceremony of their son in the US last night.

The couple waited for five years to welcome their son. At the ceremony, Sumbo revealed she had been pregnant every year since they got married.

she said that ”What I carry in my hand is a miracle from God. We went through so much but to God be the glory, David is here. I can’t count the number of losses. I have been pregnant every year since I got married. Finally David is here. He came when I was like I don’t want to keep taking babies from my womb. I am tired. That was when God decided to say Okay, I am taking over the wheel and God just gave me this one”
The couple who are celebrating their 5th wedding anniversary today July 22nd, named their son: PRINCE DAVID ADEOYE Sithembiso (Zulu name for Promise) Oluwaseyemilopo, Oluwatoromo, Oluwajomiloju, Oluwalonimi, Akorede, Oluwashina, Ayomide.

Sumbo also wished her husband a happy anniversary on her page. She wrote:

“Happy anniversary my dearest husband, father, best friend, brother, life coach and Biggest blessing. Our coming together, joining forces and embracing the will of God, was the best decision we took 5years ago.
“I Love you then,
I Love you Now,
And I promise to always Do.
I will dance for you without a beat,
Make you smile till you Shake your head,
and I will do shakara on top, so you can chase me around the house.
You are the Divine compensation I will forever be grateful for ❤”.

Princess Vitarah thankful she has 3 sugar daddies
Princess Vitarah, the Nigerian-American rapper who rapped about p**sy, is trying to get our attention again with something scandalous.

The controversial rapper wrote:

“I was sad because my sugar daddy broke up with me, then I remembered that I have 2 more. Never put all your eggs in one basket”

Princess Vitarah thankful she has 3 sugar daddies
Princess Vitarah, the Nigerian-American rapper who rapped about p**sy, is trying to get our attention again with something scandalous.

The controversial rapper wrote:

“I was sad because my sugar daddy broke up with me, then I remembered that I have 2 more. Never put all your eggs in one basket”

Nicole took to Instagram to share the good news, while expressing how thankful she is to God for making her a mom for the third time despite a relatively difficult time with the pregnancy.


see the instagram post his wife nicole

“And its a Hat Trick for @naetosuperc
Just like that folks, my baby girl life has come to a temporary halt. When I was doing #nickiinthestreets, Trimmest Kitchen and Winner of Fitness, wearing crop tops and skinny jeans up and down the whole Lagos, I did not know I was asking for trouble 😂😂😂😂 well done ma! 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽In all seriousness though, I’ve been having a pretty difficult time but I’m so thankful to God for the opportunity to be a Mummy for the THIRD time, and to my wonderful and supportive family and friends. @trimkitchen.ng is temporarily closed as I’ve had to take some time off, but we will be back bigger and better than ever once I’m done baking this baby.
#grateful #tired #happy”

Nicole took to Instagram to share the good news, while expressing how thankful she is to God for making her a mom for the third time despite a relatively difficult time with the pregnancy.


see the instagram post his wife nicole

“And its a Hat Trick for @naetosuperc
Just like that folks, my baby girl life has come to a temporary halt. When I was doing #nickiinthestreets, Trimmest Kitchen and Winner of Fitness, wearing crop tops and skinny jeans up and down the whole Lagos, I did not know I was asking for trouble 😂😂😂😂 well done ma! 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽In all seriousness though, I’ve been having a pretty difficult time but I’m so thankful to God for the opportunity to be a Mummy for the THIRD time, and to my wonderful and supportive family and friends. @trimkitchen.ng is temporarily closed as I’ve had to take some time off, but we will be back bigger and better than ever once I’m done baking this baby.
#grateful #tired #happy”

The curvy actress says she is not a gold digger however she need a guy who’s rich and comfortable to come her way that she “can’t date a man without a car, a man with at least a Corolla or a Hyundai isn’t bad for a guy who wants to date me,” she added that

The curvy actress says she is not a gold digger however she need a guy who’s rich and comfortable to come her way that she “can’t date a man without a car, a man with at least a Corolla or a Hyundai isn’t bad for a guy who wants to date me,” she added that

Victoria Kimani, the American-born Kenyan artist who took the local music industry by storm five years ago, she has been celibate since May 2017.

In a video posted on her Instagram account, Victoria revealed that she has never gotten relations with anybody since parting ways with her Nigerian ex Stanley Obiamalu.

“Since May last year, I have not had s#x with one person. So who is f*cking up? Is it me or is it dem niggas? Because I am ready, I have been ready to f**k. It’s hard. It’s like global warming,” disclosed Kimani.

“It is a bad idea to date celebrities I have tried it one time in my life, it’s hard because you have to start thinking about who is watching or who is paying attention.

Truthfully, I thought it was a good idea at first because we have so much in common like if I’m in the studio late they will understand that you are in the studio late.

Speaking during an interview after her breakup with the Nigerian video producer and director she revealed that she was not ready to get into a relationship yet.

she said Honestly, 'I feel like a virgin right now'. My love life has actually been non-existent. I’ve not been in a relationship for like six months now and I haven’t tried to bother like to try find someone else,” Kimani added.

Victoria Kimani, the American-born Kenyan artist who took the local music industry by storm five years ago, she has been celibate since May 2017.

In a video posted on her Instagram account, Victoria revealed that she has never gotten relations with anybody since parting ways with her Nigerian ex Stanley Obiamalu.

“Since May last year, I have not had s#x with one person. So who is f*cking up? Is it me or is it dem niggas? Because I am ready, I have been ready to f**k. It’s hard. It’s like global warming,” disclosed Kimani.

“It is a bad idea to date celebrities I have tried it one time in my life, it’s hard because you have to start thinking about who is watching or who is paying attention.

Truthfully, I thought it was a good idea at first because we have so much in common like if I’m in the studio late they will understand that you are in the studio late.

Speaking during an interview after her breakup with the Nigerian video producer and director she revealed that she was not ready to get into a relationship yet.

she said Honestly, 'I feel like a virgin right now'. My love life has actually been non-existent. I’ve not been in a relationship for like six months now and I haven’t tried to bother like to try find someone else,” Kimani added.

After Young Thug took to Twitter to say he's in need of sex after abstaining for a long time, the rapper visited a strip club, where he was filmed with a friend putting up a raunchy display with naked strippers.

According to TSR, his girlfriend, Jerrika Karlae was at the strip club with him, while he was getting naughty things with the strippers.

After Young Thug took to Twitter to say he's in need of sex after abstaining for a long time, the rapper visited a strip club, where he was filmed with a friend putting up a raunchy display with naked strippers.

According to TSR, his girlfriend, Jerrika Karlae was at the strip club with him, while he was getting naughty things with the strippers.

When it comes to romance, Nigerian men are known to be actively engaging. Apart from their culture of carrying the financial burden of relationship with women, they harness every opportunity to appeal to their lovers, be it on social-network sites, in their respective offices, religious organizations, gym centers, parks, clubs among others.

Despite the many romantic attributes that could be said of men in Nigeria, women still hold a contrary account about them. Predominant among the contrary views women hold against men here is that no matter how romantic they are, getting them to the altar for marriage could be very challenging.

So, what are those factors that scare Nigerian men away from marriage? We have tried to compile some reasons that make most men feel jittery to converse on ‘Marriage’ as topic, feel free to add yours if not in our list.

1. No wife materials

Common among some men is the reservation that there is scarcity of ‘wife-materials’ in Nigeria. In this case, they are not referring to ladies not being in quantifiable distribution among men, what they are complaining about is that most ladies of this generation lack the necessary attributes that will qualify them for the lifetime commitment called marriage. If this is the case, time of quality search can help heal the wound of such man.

2.They get sex freely without marriage than in time past

Realizing now that they can get sex more easily than in times past, when ‘virginity’ for women was a pass value to marriage, some men now feel lot of women today have lost it when it comes to keeping themselves whole. But, this might not be the fault of women as promiscuity is not an exclusive act than can be carried out without the consent of either gender.

3.Nigeria weddings are expensive

In a country where a man is expected to marry a woman in three different kinds of wedding- Religious, Traditional and Court, the cost of marriage no doubt is something men find very intimidating. As of last year, the average Nigeria wedding cost something like N500,000 and the it goes upward from that to more unimaginable cost. For most people, especially in this economy, that’s a lot of money. But all we advise is that men should try and cut their coat according to their material

4.In search of a ‘working class’

Today, most Nigerian men are in search of a wife capable of sharing financial responsibilities with them. Gone are the days when men marry ‘full-house-wives’, the increasing cost of living has tilted most men in favor of ladies who have a means of livelihood and willing to share with their man, the burden of building a home.

There is a common belief among some men that marriage puts an end to one’s freedom. Single men today are much more proud about not being dependent and being on their own. They fear marriage because they will become answerable for every action they take to their spouse. That is one big responsibility some men are not ready to take up.

6.Career

One of the predominant question most men will secretly ask themselves before making the decision to marry are, Will my partner make agitated about me being in office for long hours? Will he or she understand my love for my career? These are cogent questions and answering these questions could slow the decisive actions to be taken on marriage plans.

7.Unrealistic Expectations from In-laws

Some parents have set certain standards for anyone who will marry their child, either way be it that such expectations are from the groom parent’s or bride, the regulations sometimes affect relationships. If the expectations are behavioral, the challenge might be little but e are some discouraging situations where parents decide the profession qualifications, properties, etc that must be acquired by the suitor before they can give out their child to him in marriage.

8.Trust issues

Most times, people fear to get committed into a relationship because of trust issues. Some men have been bruised in their past relationships and therefore they don’t want to put themselves out there.

9.Bad Testimonies from Married couple

Generally, most men get intimidated by marriage as a result of the testimonies they hear from those in marriage. Before getting into marriage talks, it is a common thing among men to ask their brothers, friends who are already married on how the social institution is and the testimonies they get are most times discouraging, as such they fear their marriage will be a replica of the testimonies they have gathered.

10.Cultural limitations

Nigeria is a country with diverse culture and The diversity sometimes create challenges for men who are in search of women with similar culture. The good thing though is that those who endeavor to explore inter-cultural relationships get the opportunity to gain an in-depth appreciation of other customs.

When it comes to romance, Nigerian men are known to be actively engaging. Apart from their culture of carrying the financial burden of relationship with women, they harness every opportunity to appeal to their lovers, be it on social-network sites, in their respective offices, religious organizations, gym centers, parks, clubs among others.

Despite the many romantic attributes that could be said of men in Nigeria, women still hold a contrary account about them. Predominant among the contrary views women hold against men here is that no matter how romantic they are, getting them to the altar for marriage could be very challenging.

So, what are those factors that scare Nigerian men away from marriage? We have tried to compile some reasons that make most men feel jittery to converse on ‘Marriage’ as topic, feel free to add yours if not in our list.

1. No wife materials

Common among some men is the reservation that there is scarcity of ‘wife-materials’ in Nigeria. In this case, they are not referring to ladies not being in quantifiable distribution among men, what they are complaining about is that most ladies of this generation lack the necessary attributes that will qualify them for the lifetime commitment called marriage. If this is the case, time of quality search can help heal the wound of such man.

2.They get sex freely without marriage than in time past

Realizing now that they can get sex more easily than in times past, when ‘virginity’ for women was a pass value to marriage, some men now feel lot of women today have lost it when it comes to keeping themselves whole. But, this might not be the fault of women as promiscuity is not an exclusive act than can be carried out without the consent of either gender.

3.Nigeria weddings are expensive

In a country where a man is expected to marry a woman in three different kinds of wedding- Religious, Traditional and Court, the cost of marriage no doubt is something men find very intimidating. As of last year, the average Nigeria wedding cost something like N500,000 and the it goes upward from that to more unimaginable cost. For most people, especially in this economy, that’s a lot of money. But all we advise is that men should try and cut their coat according to their material

4.In search of a ‘working class’

Today, most Nigerian men are in search of a wife capable of sharing financial responsibilities with them. Gone are the days when men marry ‘full-house-wives’, the increasing cost of living has tilted most men in favor of ladies who have a means of livelihood and willing to share with their man, the burden of building a home.

There is a common belief among some men that marriage puts an end to one’s freedom. Single men today are much more proud about not being dependent and being on their own. They fear marriage because they will become answerable for every action they take to their spouse. That is one big responsibility some men are not ready to take up.

6.Career

One of the predominant question most men will secretly ask themselves before making the decision to marry are, Will my partner make agitated about me being in office for long hours? Will he or she understand my love for my career? These are cogent questions and answering these questions could slow the decisive actions to be taken on marriage plans.

7.Unrealistic Expectations from In-laws

Some parents have set certain standards for anyone who will marry their child, either way be it that such expectations are from the groom parent’s or bride, the regulations sometimes affect relationships. If the expectations are behavioral, the challenge might be little but e are some discouraging situations where parents decide the profession qualifications, properties, etc that must be acquired by the suitor before they can give out their child to him in marriage.

8.Trust issues

Most times, people fear to get committed into a relationship because of trust issues. Some men have been bruised in their past relationships and therefore they don’t want to put themselves out there.

9.Bad Testimonies from Married couple

Generally, most men get intimidated by marriage as a result of the testimonies they hear from those in marriage. Before getting into marriage talks, it is a common thing among men to ask their brothers, friends who are already married on how the social institution is and the testimonies they get are most times discouraging, as such they fear their marriage will be a replica of the testimonies they have gathered.

10.Cultural limitations

Nigeria is a country with diverse culture and The diversity sometimes create challenges for men who are in search of women with similar culture. The good thing though is that those who endeavor to explore inter-cultural relationships get the opportunity to gain an in-depth appreciation of other customs.

 Here are some of the effects of lacking s*x that most people don’t know about

Dry spells – lack of s*x – is something that almost every human can relate to.

But do you know what is happening to your body when you’re in one of those long dry spells?

Many don’t have an idea.

Here is a clue according to research by The British Association for Sexual Health and HIV.

You might feel more depressed and anxious

s*x isn’t just something that feels good in the moment – it can make you feel good all day long.

It’s well known that the release of endorphins during and after love-making improves your mood and makes you less stressed. So, when you stop, you will no longer benefit from that release.

Men, sex can help you avoid prostate cancer
Guys who stop having sex may miss out on the prostate-protecting perks of frequent trysts. A study presented to the American Urological Association found men who have more sex had 20% drop in their risk for prostate cancer. One reason? Frequent ejaculations may remove potentially harmful substances from the prostate.

You easily get colds and flues

Sex according to the research boosts immunity.

According to a research, people who had sex once or twice a week enjoyed a 30% boost in immunoglobulin A (IgA), compared with those who had sex seldom or never.

Less bladder control and erectile dysfunction

Sex also helps you manage your bladder muscles and keep off erectile dysfunction. The more you have sex, the easier it’s for you to get aroused.

Your stress levels increase

In high school, whenever a female teacher was in bad mood, guys would whisper “she needs sex”. Then it seemed like just a saying. But according to the research, when you have sex you can’t get more anxious because there’s a decrease in “feel-good” hormones being released.

Sex can help you control your stress levels.

Your dreams change
On the positive side of things, you may start having sex dreams or even orgasm in your sleep. It’s not the same as the real deal, but it’s a nice substitute.
Your intelligence stagnates

There’s an old wives’ tale that abstinence makes you more intelligent. The truth is actually the opposite: Scientists have demonstrated that sexual activity boosts neuron growth in the brain’s hippocampus.

Ladies, you won’t get tighter

Having sex can be like a workout for your Kegels. stopping only loosens them. So no, you will not become re-virginalised.


 1. He felt pressured

Things might be going great and suddenly, the woman begins to pressure the man for one thing or another. It could be for marriage or even for money.

Whichever the case, pressure comes with guilt and confusion for a man. These means he is likely to want out of that relationship. Women should avoid putting unfair pressure on their men.




2. He felt disrespected

It is often said that men crave respect the way a woman craves love in a relationship. Both partners crave love and respect but for men, respect takes priority, even more than love.

This means she should avoid disrespectful words and show that she values who he is and what he does. He needs to know that she holds him in high regard and respects his opinions, values and things he holds dear.

3. You are not compatible

For a relationship to succeed, you both need to be compatible. You should have similar ideas on what you both expect from each other.

You should have things in common and have similar values.

These are things that build a strong foundation for love. Once they are not there, the love will eventually crash.

4. He finds the right one
Sometimes, if he breaks up the relationship, it might not be solely because of her. He might have simply found someone he who he has a stronger love for.

This does happen and if this is the case, then she would have to let him go. If he has found someone more right for him, then she needs to find someone right for her.

 Here are some of the effects of lacking s*x that most people don’t know about

Dry spells – lack of s*x – is something that almost every human can relate to.

But do you know what is happening to your body when you’re in one of those long dry spells?

Many don’t have an idea.

Here is a clue according to research by The British Association for Sexual Health and HIV.

You might feel more depressed and anxious

s*x isn’t just something that feels good in the moment – it can make you feel good all day long.

It’s well known that the release of endorphins during and after love-making improves your mood and makes you less stressed. So, when you stop, you will no longer benefit from that release.

Men, sex can help you avoid prostate cancer
Guys who stop having sex may miss out on the prostate-protecting perks of frequent trysts. A study presented to the American Urological Association found men who have more sex had 20% drop in their risk for prostate cancer. One reason? Frequent ejaculations may remove potentially harmful substances from the prostate.

You easily get colds and flues

Sex according to the research boosts immunity.

According to a research, people who had sex once or twice a week enjoyed a 30% boost in immunoglobulin A (IgA), compared with those who had sex seldom or never.

Less bladder control and erectile dysfunction

Sex also helps you manage your bladder muscles and keep off erectile dysfunction. The more you have sex, the easier it’s for you to get aroused.

Your stress levels increase

In high school, whenever a female teacher was in bad mood, guys would whisper “she needs sex”. Then it seemed like just a saying. But according to the research, when you have sex you can’t get more anxious because there’s a decrease in “feel-good” hormones being released.

Sex can help you control your stress levels.

Your dreams change
On the positive side of things, you may start having sex dreams or even orgasm in your sleep. It’s not the same as the real deal, but it’s a nice substitute.
Your intelligence stagnates

There’s an old wives’ tale that abstinence makes you more intelligent. The truth is actually the opposite: Scientists have demonstrated that sexual activity boosts neuron growth in the brain’s hippocampus.

Ladies, you won’t get tighter

Having sex can be like a workout for your Kegels. stopping only loosens them. So no, you will not become re-virginalised.


 1. He felt pressured

Things might be going great and suddenly, the woman begins to pressure the man for one thing or another. It could be for marriage or even for money.

Whichever the case, pressure comes with guilt and confusion for a man. These means he is likely to want out of that relationship. Women should avoid putting unfair pressure on their men.




2. He felt disrespected

It is often said that men crave respect the way a woman craves love in a relationship. Both partners crave love and respect but for men, respect takes priority, even more than love.

This means she should avoid disrespectful words and show that she values who he is and what he does. He needs to know that she holds him in high regard and respects his opinions, values and things he holds dear.

3. You are not compatible

For a relationship to succeed, you both need to be compatible. You should have similar ideas on what you both expect from each other.

You should have things in common and have similar values.

These are things that build a strong foundation for love. Once they are not there, the love will eventually crash.

4. He finds the right one
Sometimes, if he breaks up the relationship, it might not be solely because of her. He might have simply found someone he who he has a stronger love for.

This does happen and if this is the case, then she would have to let him go. If he has found someone more right for him, then she needs to find someone right for her.